Girlfriend experience
Encyclopedia
The girlfriend experience (commonly known as GFE) is a type of service a female sex worker
offers which includes acting like a girlfriend
to the client.
If the service provider is male, the service is called boyfriend experience.
or escort offers; it varies widely from person to person, however. There is a focus on not just having sex, but also having more of a comprehensive experience.
Often sessions last longer and are "no rush," which means the call girl
spends the full advertised time rather than rushing out after the sex is over. Common activities usually offered by GFE escorts include kissing and/or french kiss
ing, cuddling and foreplay
.
A call girl advertising the provision of a "girlfriend experience" is implying that she provides deep french kissing (DFK), "full service" (intercourse) usually with protection, and fellatio
and cunnilingus
, both with or without protection. Advertising a "girlfriend experience" is sometimes used by call girls to promote business.
A stripper
may also provide a limited GFE to a customer with conversation, cuddling, and touching in a strip club
environment. Less frequently a full service GFE in including sex acts is available through use of a VIP area on the club premises separate from the main floor. These sex acts are referred to as "extras". Time for these spaces is often purchased in half hour increments much like incall and outcall for escorts. Outside of a club the stripper would then be considered an escort
if paid for the time.
By the nature of this service, the provider has to do extensive emotional labour in addition to the physical (sexual) labour required, in order to successfully display the range of emotions associated with romantic activity and satisfy the client.
Sex worker
A sex worker is a person who works in the sex industry. The term is usually used in reference to those in the sex industry that actually provide such sexual services, as opposed to management and staff of such industries...
offers which includes acting like a girlfriend
Girlfriend
Girlfriend is a term that can refer to either a female partner in a non-marital romantic relationship or a female non-romantic friend that is closer than other friends....
to the client.
If the service provider is male, the service is called boyfriend experience.
Service description
The "girlfriend experience" generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girlCall girl
A call girl or female escort is a sex worker who is not visible to the general public; nor does she usually work in an institution like a brothel, although she may be employed by an escort agency...
or escort offers; it varies widely from person to person, however. There is a focus on not just having sex, but also having more of a comprehensive experience.
Often sessions last longer and are "no rush," which means the call girl
Call girl
A call girl or female escort is a sex worker who is not visible to the general public; nor does she usually work in an institution like a brothel, although she may be employed by an escort agency...
spends the full advertised time rather than rushing out after the sex is over. Common activities usually offered by GFE escorts include kissing and/or french kiss
French kiss
A French kiss is a kiss in which one participant's tongue touches the partner's lips or tongue and usually enters his or her mouth. A French kiss is a slow passionate kiss which is usually considered intimate, romantic, erotic or sexual...
ing, cuddling and foreplay
Foreplay
In human sexual behavior, foreplay is a set of intimate psychological and physically intimate acts between two or more people meant to create desire for sexual activity and sexual arousal. Either or any of the sexual partners may initiate the foreplay, and they may not be the active partner during...
.
A call girl advertising the provision of a "girlfriend experience" is implying that she provides deep french kissing (DFK), "full service" (intercourse) usually with protection, and fellatio
Fellatio
Fellatio is an act of oral stimulation of a male's penis by a sexual partner. It involves the stimulation of the penis by the use of the mouth, tongue, or throat. The person who performs fellatio can be referred to as the giving partner, and the other person is the receiving partner...
and cunnilingus
Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is an oral sex act performed on a female. It involves the use by a sex partner of the mouth, lips and tongue to stimulate the female's clitoris, vulva, or vagina...
, both with or without protection. Advertising a "girlfriend experience" is sometimes used by call girls to promote business.
A stripper
Stripper
A stripper is a professional erotic dancer who performs a contemporary form of striptease at strip club establishments, public exhibitions, and private engagements. Unlike in burlesque, the performer in the modern Americanized form of stripping minimizes the interaction of customer and dancer,...
may also provide a limited GFE to a customer with conversation, cuddling, and touching in a strip club
Strip club
A strip club is an adult entertainment venue in which striptease or other erotic or exotic dance is regularly performed. Strip clubs typically adopt a nightclub or bar style, but can also adopt a theatre or cabaret-style....
environment. Less frequently a full service GFE in including sex acts is available through use of a VIP area on the club premises separate from the main floor. These sex acts are referred to as "extras". Time for these spaces is often purchased in half hour increments much like incall and outcall for escorts. Outside of a club the stripper would then be considered an escort
Call girl
A call girl or female escort is a sex worker who is not visible to the general public; nor does she usually work in an institution like a brothel, although she may be employed by an escort agency...
if paid for the time.
By the nature of this service, the provider has to do extensive emotional labour in addition to the physical (sexual) labour required, in order to successfully display the range of emotions associated with romantic activity and satisfy the client.