Gay Bob definition

Divergent from the group, by comparison with a homosexual.

If you're too gay bob and want to go play with your dolls instead, I guess you don't have to play football with us.

One who is acting in a manner divergent from the group, by comparison with a homosexual.

The others called me a gay bob when I wouldn't ditch class with them.

(pejorative for a divergent individual, by comparison with a homosexual): queer

1997 November 22, Gary L. Simmons, “Re: Starship Troopers”, alt.games.marathon, Usenet

I had no idea so many gay BOBs read this newsgroup!
2000 July 1, “census & your name”, alt.fan.cecil-adams, Usenet

Phil Sidler: What is the statistical significance of putting your name on the census questionnaire? Does more Bob's [sic.] in my neighborhood mean we get more or less money for gerbil research?

Tim Robinson: [Only] if they are gay Bobs. That is to say, Oral Roberts.
2003: “Mr Wonderful” (pseudonym), “Liberalism--Light On Crime”, soc.culture.african.american, Usenet http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.african.american/msg/cd3f9b05702184ac

You can have some of that big ass and those big titties, unless you are too much of a gay bob to partake.
2006: Eric Wilder, Murder Etouffee, Virtualbookworm Publishing, ISBN 1589398599, page 125

"May-be [sic.] I don't like having a gay bob for a brother."

Beaux must have expected Bertram's retort, though he apparently had no immediate reply for it.