Radhasoami, pls help me. i dont want to get married wht should i do? i again spoke to my parents thy said tht if u want to live so get married otherwise go an jump in a river.I said no for marriage bcz i dont want to in relationship with anyone in my lifetime. pls help As of nw i hv only 2 options to run away or to commit sucide. wht to do i m confused abt it. i spoke in beas agn for same reason. Sewadhar said tht it is individual decission we cnt help u out. and as far as ur parents comment of sucide is there it is just bcz of there furstration so it is up to me thy said. Nw wht to do i m confused where to go? pls kisi k paas babaji ki b contact details hai toh pls frwd kariye.
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You don't have to get married, it's your decision. Don't commit suicide. Soon you'll be old enough to do as you please.
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Radha Soami Ji..
Plz never think abt suicide as it is a very big sin u know..
I will suggest u to read some Questio Answer books from Dera then u will get ur answer...Par fir v mai tuhanu suggest karunga ik gal..jo baba ji bahut satsang ch keha karde ne ke ruhaniaat naa te bhogi banke te naa hi tyagi banke kamai ja sakdi ae so asee central path choose karna ae..ithe apne faraz v nibhaune ne te main kam bhajan simran v nahi shaddna.. parents saade layi ki kuj ni karde jad hun una di khushi da mauka aya te asee una nu dukh de dayiye ki ae changi gal ae?? Rabb da bhana mann ke jeena kisnu kehnde ne?? Ke jo v rabb karda ae saade layi kuj soch samajh ke karda ae so saade parents saade to vadde ne bahut uh saadi bhalayi layi e te sochde ne.. te Parents di gal mannna samjhlao ke rabb di gal mann rahe ho..Mai ik e gal kahanga ke 2 raaste jarur ne tuhaade kol ke first parents nu hurt karna te duja una nu khushi deni..
Mai dere ik meeting attend kiti c te us ch pathi sahab ne keha c ke baba ji kehnde ne is tarah de bann jao ke jithe v jaao khushiyaan vikher ke aao sab nu khush kar ke aao kyn ke sab us parmaatma de dhee putter ne te rabb khush hovega te tuhadi khushi da hamesha jada dhyan rakhega..
Think abt it ke khushi deni ae ya dukh una nu..
Rabb da naam le ke jo v kam karoge achha hoyega so rabb daa naam lao te life ch agge vadho..par bhajan simran da v dhyan rakhna ae.. jo bahut jaruri ae..
Radha Soami ji...
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Radha Soami Anita,
After such a long time I opened this blog and saw your question. I really like to tell you one thing, which is said in most of the spiritual books that:
Yeh insaan ka jama humhe bahut hee mushkil say milta hai aur issko aise he gavaana koy hoshiyaari kee baat nahi hai. Agar isse gavana he hai toh BHAJAN/SIMRAN mae gavaoo/lagao, taaki tum kuch haasil ker sako. Agar nahi samaj mae aati toh deko roads per KUTTE/BILLO ko jo kaise jeete hai (They also have soul in them). Roads per begger ko deko jo kaise apna jeevan jete hai, ek waqt kee roti key liye kya kya nahi ker. Agar humko maalik nay accha sharir diya hai aur buddi dee hai toh kyu na hum accha soche aur ussko utilize ker, na kee yeh sucide-voside ko kaam kernay kee soche. (Woh maalik sab dek raaha hai. Suicide say bada aur koy paap nahi ho sakta. Please understand it.
Chota sa example lo: agar tumaare parents ya koy love one agar tumko koy cheese pyaar say de aur tum ussko ussi key saamnay accept na kero to uss dene waale ko kitna bura lagega. Same applies for this human living as well.
Aur haa ek baat aur bolna chahuga. yeh kabi mut soch lena kee tum TYAGI ban ker maalik kee bandgi ker logi. We always have to understand physical requirements maturely. ek na ek din yeh jaroor jor maarti hai, issliye humara GHRAST mae rehker hee BHAJAN/SIMRAN kerna teek hai. We surely be able to get the divine way with this life path.
Babaji Maaf keray agar maine kuch galat kaha toh.
