Hi am yohannes from mekelle,ethiopia. i have been studing the benefits of being a celibate for quiet a long time now.and i belive i deeply want to be a celibete.however i realy donot kow what to do with my sexaul urges.becuase of this i got myself into unplanned affair and have got a charming baby boy( i feel our acidents are part of a bigger divine plan). but now i want to call it a day and do what i feel is right .can you tell me what to do about these urges?