My boyfriend had been going to NA meetings for three months. He's been kind of forced to go and kind of not to. It's complicated. My question w/ situation is this though:

I feel left out, excluded, and very uncomfortable with him going to NA meetings. He was caught smoking pot, and that's why he's going. He's never done anything worse, and he's never even smoked regularly. He's not in need of NA, I think it's doing him more harm then good.

If he keeps choosing to go to the meetings how can I stop feeling like this? Or how can I convince him to stop going?

You know addiction begins with just ONE. That's how it started with me.I graduated from smoking pot to smoking crack for 17 years. I have 3 years clean.The NA program helped me a lot.I'm not saying it's a perfect program don't forget this is a program where addicts are meeting.After the drugs are gone we have other issues to deal with like handling life being clean. Have you considered going to the meetings with him? There are open meetings where you can go along with him.